We have beautiful birthstone options, or honor their birth day with a number, initial or hand-engraved piece. Another idea is to give the gift that shows that you really know them: which Tenet best describes them? ..to recognize their idiosyncracies, their strengths, what you cherish about them out loud (not just in our heads), and, even better, in writing so they have it to hold and re-read. To truly see someone and to be seen, for all of our flaws, incongruities and gifts..to be cherished and loved all the more for our perfectly imperfect selves, what more could anyone want?